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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like he is not enriching your life in any way.  And not enriching the kids lives.  He is not changing.  Accept fully or separate and divorce.  He does not want to parent.  Good luck.  I was with a person like this.  Life is much better now that there is not a man child around who refuses to get help.[/quote]

OP here.

The crazy thing is, is when he's away on travel, I feel better and am not irritable or angry. I think because there's no expectation of help, you just have to do it all.

I feel a lot of resentment towards him. He invests a lot of energy into maintaining relationships with everyone but me and our kids.

Besides testing, which would be a Herculean feat just to get him to even agree to it (remember marriage counseling has been crickets for 7 years), he probably wouldn't make any lasting changes.

Our argument this summer didn't even produce any emotion from him. Meanwhile I was crying throughout most of it. It honestly surprised me that he didn't show anything other than staring and maybe half listening to all of my gripes.

Just really sucks because we've been together for a very, very long time.[/quote]

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