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[quote=Anonymous]I have 2 kids, 9 and 12. My husband has had rocky work situation and because of that, most of the burden has fallen on me. I would have liked to have had 3 kids, but i felt i couldn't add one more considering all the pressure that I'm under. All of this makes sense EXCEPT: 1.I still have sadness and regret, despite the pragmatic reasons 2. the sadness and regret then cause resentment 3. I've actually done pretty well (although might not have with 3 kids). 4. Not dealing super well with the passage of time and wish i had one more younger one I guess the tldr is part of my brain feels sad that I didn't just decide to have a more modest life and another kid instead of prioritizing financial security. Like a grown up. Can anyone relate? Or no, I'm just a dummy who lives in cloud cuckoo land and need to get my sh*t together, psychologically? (or both can be true)[/quote]
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