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[quote=Anonymous]He sounds like such a loser.

Change the name you have him listed as under your contacts. Try “Douchecanoe” or “Loser” or “Turd Blossom”—something that makes you laugh.

Do not tell him to stop texting you. That will let him know that he’s bugging you. You can at most tell him you are very worried about his mental health, since texting you a bajillion times at 2:00 am is not normal.

If you don’t let him bug you, you win. You have set up boundaries and controls. Do not respond to anything that isn’t about the kids. Do not respond the next morning unless it’s urgent. Take your time. Be brief and write every text message as if a custody judge is going to read it. Repeatedly congratulate yourself on getting divorced from this garbage. Know that in X number of years, even if now it seems like a lot, you will be completely done with him and never have to interact with him again.

Make sure your kid(s) is getting the therapy and tools they need in order to deal with having this guy as their dad. [/quote]

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