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[quote=Anonymous]I’d appreciate any pointers from the BTDT crowd. I’ve been divorced from my narc ex for almost 4 years. We were doing well in our general coparenting relationship especially for the last 6 mos. But in the last several weeks I’ve started receiving 2am-ish screeds about whatever he thinks he’s making the last and best point on. He did this while we were in the divorce process and I’d get 31 (I kid you not) texts in the 2-3am time period. Yes, I muted him and did the things. I know that my boundaries with him are like goals to him, but I have legit trauma related to just seeing his name in my messages app, even if the content is seemingly innocuous (never is).  Is there any point in just saying “don’t text me in the middle of the night”? It sounds so simple, but I think it’s the reaction he wants, so I’ve just left him muted and choose to read and (not) respond when I feel like it. But the ‘non action’ on my part is also kinda driving me mad as well. (Also his intent)

Maybe I’m just looking for some validation here? I just don't understand why this many years out I’d still be some source for him. [/quote]

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