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[quote=Anonymous]How is any of this anti-feminist?

You make a lot more money than her, so it makes logical sense you would pay more. Most couples split things based on income.

Yes, if someone drives an hour to see you for the weekend, it is common courtesy for you to take care of your guests. The BF is putting her up in a hotel? Why? That makes zero sense. Either way, yea, if you request someone come visit you for the weekend but you won't let them stay with you, you should pay for their hotel room.

And it sounds like it's not about you feel taken advantage of, it's more that you want to stick it to her for being feminist. That's not a good sign that you care about her or even like her. You shouldn't be looking for "gotchas!" with your partner.

Like my BF is more 'traditional' and believes that the man is the leader. Does that mean I sit back and let him make every single decision and if he doesn't, whine and complain "but you said men are leaderssssss"? No, that's just dumb, just like it would be dumb for him to bean count every little thing and make sure it's split right down the middle.

Each person brings their own beliefs about relationships and you find a way to compromise so everyone is happy. If you're just going to complain, you should break up.[/quote]

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