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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to add value to his life, make his life easier and become indispensable or at least project the possibility of doing so. This assumes, of course, that you are dealing with a man of good character that wants to be in a monogamous relationship.[/quote]

How do you do this? [/quote]

You don't want to be a doormat or a pushover and, of course, want to make sure that your needs are being met as well, but the basic process involves some combination of taking notice of his interests or likes (this demonstrates that you think and care about him as a person) and becoming aware of his pain points and helping to alleviate them (this demonstrates that you have observed his life enough to know what causes him headaches and can be a willing and active participant in trying to make them go away, even if not always successful). It's better if these things are done volitionally as opposed to having to be extracted, but this will also need to involve some communication to fully understand these things. He should be of the mindset that what you bring to his life will be hard to replace in the open dating market and thus think twice about effing it up. Concurrently with this, he has to know that you are a woman of standards and the he must meet them.

Of course, none of this is a guarantee because people will always be idiots, but it should improve odds. [/quote]

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