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[quote=Anonymous]In all of my relationships, we built up to seeing each other every day over time, as we became more serious. It certainly didn’t START with every day, and decrease over time. That being said, there are lots of people who would be fine with 1-2x a week in the midst of busy lives. But your partner may not be one of them.

Your preference is very normal a few months in, but it’s tricky because it sounds like you got serious very quickly, and your partner may experience any decrease in time spent together as you cooling off or withdrawing.

Are you dating for marriage? Or just companionship? I wonder if you and your partner want different things, now that the “honeymoon” stage is receding.

I think emotional intimacy would be hard to build when you’re only communicating “occasionally.” To me, that reflects a less serious relationship, and less of a partnership.

Is this your norm in relationships, historically? For me personally, in all of my serious relationships, our lives just naturally intertwined.

Wanting to shoo your partner out the door does not sound like a good dynamic, but it doesn’t sound like either of you are in the wrong; you just have different needs. Although  wanting some personal space is totally valid, and you can communicate about that in a respectful way.

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