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Reply to "Giving "space" while going through a rough patch in a 20-yr marriage, am I overreacting? "
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[quote=Anonymous]I think this is beyond repair. It’s not that “space” has some universal meaning that everyone has to respect. It’s that you’re supposed to communicate with each other. He has told you he doesn’t owe you basic check ins. He’s sleeping with other people. What’s it going to take? Have some self respect. Do you have young kids? If not, he’s already living in a hotel with a girlfriend so tbh just get on with your life. Get all your financial/legal ducks in a row. Go and do the things you enjoy. Build your own future. Let him file if he wants to or do it when you decide it’s time. If you do have young kids, see a lawyer right away. If you decide the marriage is over, do your best to suppress all of your feelings about it and work collaboratively, but with a lawyer, until you get the best custody arrangement worked out for the kids. [/quote]
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