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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m curious about others responses. Similar situation. About two months ago, I had invited a couple we are friends with over for dinner. I love hosting and spent all day cooking. The wife canceled 15 min before they were supposed to arrive and sent only her husband. She claimed she wasn’t feeling well (allergies) and had been on the couch all day resting. I was so annoyed. Fine to cancel, but 15 min before you’re supposed to arrive is just so rude. I haven’t really seen her since and now wonder if it’s too late to bring up. I wanted to tell her it really hurt my feelings. I’m not one to make a big deal out of things but this really rubbed me the wrong way. When do you address it and when do you just let it go? She’s kinda flakey so it isn’t completely unexpected behavior. [/quote]

OP here and I’m sorry. It’s kind of nice to read, though unfortunately that other people wonder the same thing. You’ve actually comforted me quite a lot, as I feared the responses would be “you’re needy” “so dramatic”. But this stuff happens and it’s hurtful.

Was the woman your friend or were you just friendly?[/quote]

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