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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hope you feel better trashing your elderly parent. I feel sorry for your dad. [/quote] OP here. And, get used to having people like this in every topic when you share what you are dealing with! It is completely ok not to love your parent. Most likely it’s the parent’s fault tbh. I am entitled to my feelings; it’s the actions that matter. As long as my parent is housed and fed and has access to healthcare, my conscience is clear. I don’t owe them love or frivolous expenses. [/quote] NP - I really appreciated your post, OP. To the above, I just wanted to add that some people may love their parents but not like them very much, or may find the reversal of roles very upsetting. That's allowed too, and people like PP don't get to criticize. I agree that as long as your parent is safe and cared for and you're not saying cruel things to them, you're doing great. [/quote]
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