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[quote=Anonymous]Giving a virtual hug. Been there.

Agree strongly with this...

"I think 38 is a really tough age... men assume you want kids and a lot of men in their thirties who want kids are going to aim for women a little younger. Meanwhile, older men in their forties who are divorced and already have kids dont' want more, but they assume you do, so they'd actually rather date women who are 43 and don't want kids than a 38 year old who is holding into hope."

Also agree with after 1 short communication or two asking the guy to coffee. Some of the nicest guys may appear a bit socially awkward over an app.

Most importantly, change your framing - pick your best feature (legs, smile, hair, you name it) and online and in real life showcase that. (Even instead of "average looking" as you called yourself to us spend a week where you refer in your head to yourself as "Hot [insert your name.]" The confidence this gives you will affect your walk/presence. And even if you're doing apps - tell everyone you know 'hey, if you know any nice guys, feel free to let me know.'  
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