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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not having any success with the dating apps. I’m pretty average looking and people describe me as “cute” I look younger than my age of 38 years and I dress in conservative classy clothes. Turtle neck sweaters, tights and skirts. Shift dresses, ballet flats, simple clean makeup, sensible shoes.  I’m not fat but can lose 5-10 lbs.

On hinge I receive no likes and when I do they’re from…fat guys or ugly guys or truck drivers or socially awkward guys.

I was curious what was going on and I checked out my competition. Wow! Hot 45 year old women with bodies that look like Victoria secret models ; selfies with ample cleavage, lots of bikini shots…yikes!

I don’t even know how to dress hot or sexy! [/quote]

Most of those hot women are bots or Only Fans girls trying to catfish gullible guys.

Maybe lose the turtleneck sweaters. Make sure you're including at least a couple full-body shots. Have a friend review your profile to see what you're saying about yourself. [/quote]

Op here. I showed it to my sister who said it doesn’t do me justice. I need to dress hot and put up pics.

Problem is…I don’t know how to dress hot[/quote]

I gotta say, if you are 38 and don’t know what men like to see, I’m not sure it is surprising that you are having trouble.  Skin.  Guys respond to seeing a woman’s body.  Doesn’t have to be bikini pics, but something that is far removed from a turtleneck.  Sundress is the ultimate, but something in that vein.

Your age is also a bit tough because some men are going to be concerned that you are going to quickly want to have kids.  You have to be 100% explicit on whether you do or don’t.

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