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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see any upside here. Ignore it and it will gnaw at you. Confront and it will obviously upset the apple cart.

How do you KNOW? Are you sure you aren't jumping to a conclusion?

If you raise it, you need to be prepared to be lied to, gaslit or otherwise minimized. Which also won't exactly strengthen your marriage.

Are you sure there weren't others? Are you sure the affair didn't produce any children?[/quote]

I am the OP.

I came home early from work 2 hours early because we lost power at the office. She was on the phone with her best friend. She had buds in. I wasn't eavesdropping. She thought she was in an empty house and was very loud because of the buds. From what I could glean, the best friend had bumped into the AP at DCA and was telling her about it. I heard enough that I knew to question it and how. She eventually admitted it but grew extremely prickly, almost hostile really, with any question I had. She eventually got angry with me over the questions and walked out. It was truly odd, like I was the bad guy.

I don't have any evidence of others but my mind is racing[/quote]

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