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[quote=Anonymous]I think the big open question would be WHY did he have an affair? I’d be much more willing to forgive and move past it if I understood what happened and this felt it could be addressed. So - just got bored? Nope. Gave into temptation? Nope. Unequal sex drives (presumably not changing)? Nope. We went through a legitimately rough time in our marriage for whatever reason and came out the other side having addressed all our core issues? But it turns out he cheated during our low point? I could maybe get past that. Had a parent die and it wrecked them and they developed a severe depression and used illicit sex as a coping mechanism, but have gone through therapy, gotten past it, and now have the coping skills to better deal with something like this in the future? Sounds manageable. [/quote]
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