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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, so holidays mean something…to you. Holidays come with expectations…for you. And your brother is his own person, who clearly doesn’t share that priority or expectations. OK. Would you rather he and his wife and kids never see you and your family, but show up randomly three or four days a year for holidays? Or might you feel grateful that you see them more regularly, have a good relationship, but do your own thing for holidays? Why do some people act like holidays are such a must-do, performative thing? My brother and his partner sometimes join us for holidays, sometimes not. They didn’t want to join our Thanksgiving this year, but we have plans to see them the next weekend. OK![/quote]
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