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[quote=Anonymous]Just call the church directly. They can walk you through the options. Also, be open minded about the mass request. If it's not someplace she's lived in a long while, they may be right on that one. The priest might offer to do a short service at the gravesite instead which could be just as nice and perhaps more in line with the inclination of the family. These people are probably pretty old. They're not going to change now. They do seem a little stuck, but again, what are you going to do? But also, it is indeed asking a lot to ask them to manage the transfer of a body. Or even to pay the fee for the mass. I would never have asked that of my parents' siblings. That said, when my father died my uncle did pay for a mass in his hometown even though his ashes were interred elsewhere, so of course he paid. Generally, the person who wants the mass said pays.[/quote]
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