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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi Op, have you try getting a small group get-together? It seems most matured women enjoy more than 3 or 4 vs one-on-one![/quote] I am the opposite. I can do a small group gathering but my preference is 1:1 unless the group has just the right balance of personalities. With groups, there are sometimes group politics that I am less and less willing to deal with as I get older. The exception is is if we are engaged in an activity. If we're taking a class, going for a hike, playing tennis or pickleball, the group is great and actually takes the pressure off because you'll usually have varying ability levels and it makes the activity feel more social and easy. If I'm going for coffee or dinner though, I'd rather just meet up with one friend. I want to hear what they are up to without the dynamics of other friendships influencing what we discuss. I like my established vibe with my existing friends.[/quote]
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