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Reply to "Feeling like I'm the spouse who is always "on" and keeping things in order"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have a conversation with him where you ask him to highlight things he notices that need to be done that you haven’t noticed. Maybe he also has a list or maybe he doesn’t. Either way you can then have a discussion about things on the lists. I think you need to be more problem solving oriented rather than complaining. It often leads to more change.[/quote] I'm someone who thinks just like you do, and I have a very equal marriage. I also have a very close friend who could have written the OP and she has done everything she can to address the issue with no change. I think it's like dog breeds - some men can swim and fetch and some can't. And trying to teach a Pekinese to retrieve a duck is a lost cause. [/quote]
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