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[quote=Anonymous]Adding to the chorus of friends of people this happened to. It REALLY messed up my friend. She was totally shocked, felt her childhood was a lie (since it was obvious once it happened that they’d been “staying together for the kids”), and she also felt really guilty (since clearly her parents had been unhappy and tolerating it for her). Plus, the first year of college is a time of HUGE change, and she would come home for breaks and the home and family she’d known were basically just gone. It was so destabilizing, but because you’re an “adult” you kinda just need to deal. My parents divorced when I was 4 and my brother was 8, did the 50/50 custody thing, and had a DRAMATICALLY easier time than my friend. I would strongly recommend against this. If you’re really going to wait until the kids are gone, wait until 2nd or 3rd year of college. [/quote]
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