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[quote=Anonymous]I have a boss who thinks he knows what I want to tell him. He also decides how my sentences end.
I told him and another gentleman (machine repairman who had arrived 10 minutes earlier) that their cars were about to get ticketed. There's were 3 other people right next to them who heard me say it to them.
The other gentleman ran out to move his car right away. I had to tell my boss again 3 more times.
In the middle of my sentence telling my boss 3rd time that he was going to get a ticket, he told me not to bug him as he was not really working today. He had just come by for a second. In his head, whatever I said, was about work.
I left him alone for a moment, but I still wanted to save him from the ticket. I went to the office where he was now and told him one more time. Somehow he heard me the 4th time and he ran out.
He knows he shouldn't park there as he has got  tickets before, and I have saved him from tickets before. 
I don't talk to him unless really necessary. He does have ADHD and ASD. He thanked me when he came back, but said he had lots going on as he felt embarrassed slightly. Well, he clearly creates half the trouble in his life including being in debt. He also creates trouble at work and then sends me to fix them.
Not gaslighting, but annoying as heck. I guess I need to figure out his way of thinking. Writing a notes perhaps instead of talking.

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