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[quote=Anonymous]The other day, my boyfriend left his phone unlocked on the counter, and I noticed he was logged into a different Instagram account than usual. It’s a fetish page where he’s wearing hazmat suits and gas masks. The header mentions that he has a fetish for latex, heavy rubber, and hazmat gear.

We’ve been dating for about a year, and he hasn’t mentioned any of this to me. I’m a bit worried because we’ve been talking more about moving together.

Our sex life is good, and since he’s never brought it up, it’s clear that it’s not something he absolutely needs to enjoy himself. He’s less experienced than I am, and he’s mentioned that he might need some guidance, but when I try to talk to him about what he likes or wants, he just brushes it off.

I’ve told him that I’m open to trying new things, and I’ve been clear about my boundaries, but none of these topics have come up. I’m more than willing to explore things with him, and I really don’t want him to hide anything from me, especially if we’re going to be living together. Maybe I’m just talking to myself here, but how can I let him know that he can share whatever he’s into without fear of judgment?[/quote]

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