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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I matched with a guy and we messaged for a bit, but then he stopped responding to my last message. Later, he reached out to apologize, saying he’d gotten busy. I saw the message but wasn’t sure if I wanted to continue the conversation, though I didn’t unmatch—so I guess part of me was still interested.

He followed up again with a really nice voice message, which won me over. We messaged a bit and had a video call. We talked about meeting in person, and I said I’d share my phone number on the app. I did and he replied with his number, which I found odd, since he already had mine. Why not just text me?

Anyway, I mentioned that I appreciated how busy he is, adding that my time is limited too—but I didn’t mean to suggest I didn’t want to hear from him soon.

Now I’m wondering: should I text him? I don’t want to seem desperate or like I’ll be the one initiating everything.[b] I want a man who’s willing to pursue me.[/b]

Thoughts?[/quote]

He may be a great guy, and he may like you, but if you want a man who pursues you, he’s not your guy.

I’m like you - I prefer a man who pursues - and I learned that most guys will not, whether they’re not into you, it’s not their personality, they’re scared, etc. The trick is rather than trying to turn one specific guy into the guy you want, you should be ready to move on quickly if things aren’t progressing. [/quote]

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