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[quote=Anonymous]He gets angry very easily and overreacts to the simplest things. His words are hurtful and feel cruel.

Two nights ago, I made dinner. During dinner he was talking about his day at work and DC refused to eat their veggies. I asked him to pause for a second, while I turned to DC and instructed them to eat their veggies and explained that everyone was done but them.

He supported me and told them to please finish their food.

He went to talk more, and I see DC cross their arms and just this there pouting. I then turned to them and scolded them for doing so.

He got irate. He said that no one ever listens to their stories. Why does he even bother etc..Got up and stomped over to the sink to start doing the dishes (we have a rule, if I cook he cleans and vice versa).

DC and I sat stunned at his reaction. He mumbled what sounded like harsh things about me and then said things like  “Thanks to me, we have everything we have.” and then stomped over and leaned over us, mostly directed to me and said, “YOUR WELCOME!!” He was again with that red angry snarl when he gets in the awful moods. He went back to the sink, mumbled again, about how he takes care of everything and the only reason we have what we have is because of him. and he did it again..stomped over and angrily shouted “YOUR WELCOME” above my head.

Meanwhile, I felt so beat down to the point I felt unworthy of the food sitting in my stomach.

I do work but my income has been affected by the current administration.  I otherwise make around $115k a year. He makes a lot more.

I am not imagining things. These are his true feelings and he absolutely hates me, right?

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