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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For the ones who have had these kinds of relationships, did you actually care about the men? What did you say to them and what did they say to you?

How do you deal with competing invitations for Saturday night? Holidays? Running into each other or each other's friends?[/quote]

It was only for a very short period of 6 months for me when I had parallel dates. I was seeing them on different days - some were only available during the week; others on weekends. We didn’t get to intros to friends or joint holidays. One guy fell into me; another  went back to GF he was seeing in parallel; one more presented himself poly. I found them all perfunctory in bed and didn’t enjoy sex as much as I would in a committed relationship. I didn’t care for them much and didn’t allow myself to relax and catch feelings. With poly man I simply couldn’t continue having sex as he wanted more varied acts and I only wanted everything protected. It felt cringy even kissing them leaving alone BJs. Eventually I only saw one man and ended of myself as I didn’t fall into him. It all felt like a total waste of time that gave me very little physically or emotionally 
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