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[quote=Anonymous]DH here: first, sorry you have to deal with this. I did want to weigh in on the question of comparing yourself to the porn people though. You really shouldn’t, it’s not at all the same thing. Given the facts as you have described them, it sounds to me like the issues are mostly on his side—turning down your spouse in favor of porn is not normal behavior, and it suggests that he has issues around sex or around your relationship that need to be addressed. It’s unlikely to be a referendum on your attractiveness—and here is where I’m going to get piled on by replies, but I’m just being real because someone needs to say it—unless you have really let yourself go to the point where he has a legitimate issue about it. If he’s worth keeping, this is a place where counseling could help; but you should ask yourself whether this relationship is really healthy from your perspective as well.[/quote]
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