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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I tried to wait it out. I was in a very different situation and had been forced out of my equal paying career and we had a literal $1m difference between our salaries, with ex as the high earner. He was originally just tense, grouchy, etc like yours but slowly that evolved into mean and then clearly mentally ill. And the little he did with the kids dwindled down to nothing because his job always came first.

I thought I could make it until at least the oldest was 18. But then DH filed out of the blue after a major promotion that made our split assets and savings look like nothing.

If you can I would try a post-nup and I would also think about whatever I could do to avoid upsizing any real estate holdings. We had just bought a new, more expensive house before exDH filed and it will never sell and most of my liquidity is stuck in it.[/quote]

How much is your house? It’s hard to believe with $1M difference in salary, he has no other holdings… I heard of you are together for 20 years or more in VA/MD, and your partner makes at least twice more, you would get alimony for life. [/quote]

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