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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you change the facts about what the issue is, or is it really the custodial parent has a new romantic partner? If that is indeed the issue, it’s unlikely that a judge will really care, especially by the time they get to court. If the issue was changed, it depends on the issue. [/quote] I changed little things like the activity isn’t actually soccer. But the issue today is the early meeting of the romantic partner. Next week it will be something else though.[/quote] Is your relative (or custodial parent) asking you for help or are you just trying to make sense of a chaotic situation? As a practical matter, the non-custodial parent is very unlikely to file anything, and if they do, they will not win. If the custodial parent is struggling with the stress if the empty threats then they may need to check in with a therapist on tactics to handle stress and learn to “grey rock.” As a legal matter, custodial parent is hopefully checking in with their lawyer and getting advice on how to handle. Without being privy to all the details, I would advise custodial parent to keep notes on the events and to be flawlessly civil and reasonable in all communications with ex (while minimizing to the largest extent possible.) Custodial parent can have lawyer look over responses a few times and understand what kind of communication merits a response or not. Assuming custodial parent is motivated they will be able to pick up very quickly how to respond. [/quote] Also OP if you are the poster who is taking your relative’s custodial time (agreed to by all based on your prior posts) then I think maybe you would benefit from therapy yourself. This can’t be an easy situation for you, but you’re doing a really kind and great thing for the kids. You may see yourself as less important here but it can’t be easy! [/quote]
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