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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does your mom own a house?
Does she get social security 
Does she have other money?

Your answer to your brothers is “no, it’s not horrible. [b]what’s horrible is you moved far away without taking into account how you would care for our parents”[/b]

Then figure out the money and get your mom into a safe environment with good care and supplement that care with a companion.

It’s her money don’t try to save it for yall. 
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Good advice other than the bolded, which is flat-out ridiculous.  [/quote]

No it’s not. It points out they don’t care about mom’s care. Some kids stick around knowing mom and dad will need someone. These men DID NOT GAF about mom and dad. [/quote]

Your position is that any kid who moves away from their hometown, without having a plan regarding how to take care of their parents in the event they need eldercare "DO NOT GAF" about their parents?  Just as one example, the 22 yos who graduate college and get a job in another city need to have a plan for their 55 yo parents, who are a decade away from retirement?  What if the parents move - are the kids obligated to follow?

Sorry, you're right, that's not ridiculous - it's flat-out insane.  At best, it's a very 1830s view of the world.  Seems like you are coming to this situation with some baggage, and that's driving your opinions.  [/quote]

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