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[quote=Anonymous]DH here: the hard issue here is that you need to convey the message in a way that he can understand it without feeling too criticized. A lot of men have really internalized the view that too aggressive is bad, and it can take some time to unlearn. This may sound lame but it isn’t really his fault. I think most men can come around once they understand what you actually want. I’d start with a flirty vibe and say something like “I’m a bad girl who needs a spanking” or some such, whatever the particular vibe you are looking for is. Then just goad him until you reach the appropriate level of intensity. Positive reinforcement after, he may feel a little awkward at first. [/quote]
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