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[quote=Anonymous]Is she normally a pessimistic person? Type A? I am that way, and if I make a mistake, I stew in it for days. I still cringe at things I did 30+ years ago as a teen/young adult. She needs time, and maybe some therapy? A third party that she can just unload on. Sometimes talking to a person who doesn't know you is easier because the person doesn't have the past history and baggage with you. You can tell the therapist your concerns about her. If I were in your DD's shoes, I too would be beating myself up pretty hard over such a monumental mistake. This is going to take time for her to get back to some level of normal. Time and a huge leap forward are the things that will help her. But, it might be helpful to talk to a therapist. GL[/quote]
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