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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What exactly is it she wants you to do that you're not doing for your own kids?[/quote] Her kids/grandkids are all 30/60/90-minute drives away, less than half as far as mine. We go to every possible event with them. Ratio of interaction is like 20:1 vs. mine who are twice as far away or more.[/quote] Well, I can't blame her for wanting to go to all the things if they are not far. [b]That ratio is bad[/b] but what do you want to do to make it fair? Accompany her less, or go to more of your family's events, or move closer to your family? [/quote] She is very busy; there is no way she could handle a 1:1 ratio. So this works for her. But it makes me annoyed/feeling guilty/resentful. And my kids (maybe understandably) aren’t always so thrilled about her presence.[/quote] All the more reason you have to go your kids things by yourself [/quote]
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