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[quote=Anonymous]I feel like I’m falling into an age-old trap of prioritizing my gf’s kids/grandkids at the expense of my own. It makes sense that everything would be easier/warmer with them when their father/grandfather is tragically gone vs. my kids/grandkids whose mother/grandfather is very much still around. And it’s only natural that my gf wants me to step in to fill the gap left by her husband’s untimely death. But I’m not him — I have plenty of my own kids/grandkids. How many guys have managed to walk this high wire and not come crashing down, and what were the keys to success?[/quote]
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