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[quote=Anonymous]Experienced teacher here. Both the child and mom need some education about this. I would have the guidance counselor help. First, the child and parent need clear parameters, in written form, about what should be reported. Use bullet points. Yes, report if someone is being hurt, if property was damaged and needs replacing, if cursing or hitting is involved, if safety is involved, or if the issue happens over and over. Do not report if it is something that was handled, there was no lasting harm, etc.

The mom and kid need to understand the social implications regarding tattling so much. The mom needs to learn what is developmentally appropriate, and how to let the kid learn to navigate this stuff on her own. Mom is trying to show the kid she is always in her corner, but she’s going overboard.

Then, what is underlying the girl’s need to tattle? Is she trying to get kids in trouble? Does she feel more secure knowing that you are fully informed? Is she unsure of her ability to take care of herself and needs an adult constantly involved?

Once you have been able to fully get the girl to understand what should not be reported, you need consequences for continuing, if she does. [/quote]

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