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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][twitter][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]From a practical standpoint, if she lives in the UK, how often do you think it is even possible that she will be taking care of your kids.

I wouldn't add anything in for those rare occasions. [/quote]

+1  I wouldn't get into a tit for tat about mother in laws when yours is on another continent and his is likely to be living in the same house as the child soon.  Concentrate on keeping things amicable so that it will naturally make more sense in his mind to call you when he's called out of town, before booking a plane ticket.
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I’m OP and you have it mixed up. STBexMIL lives permanently in the Uk. DH would fly her the 6 hours or whatever whenever he had a work trip so she could babysit. And then fly her back to the UK. She is the primary caregiver for another grandchild there.

My mom is local. She does not live with us, and probably won’t for 3-4 years. I don’t anticipate her providing childcare ever but am concerned about my child being a teen one day and wanting to stay home alone and not being able to if she does move in with us.[/quote]

That's literally what I said.  Don't get into a tit for tat about mothers in law because [b]your [/b]MIL lives on another continent and [b]his [/b]MIL is likely to be living in the same house as the kid.

And knowing that your MIL is already the primary caregiver for a grandchild in the UK makes it even less likely that she would actually be flown over for last minute babysitting.  Realize how unlikely this is to materialize as a real issue, let alone a recurring one, and move on.[/quote]

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