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[quote=Anonymous]They're being rude... and my husband and I are East Asian, with a ton of baggage when it comes to respect for one's parents and the elderly. You need to tell them no more visits until they get the hotel. Since they pushed the "host us because we're your parents" thing, I wouldn't even offer to pay for it unless they're lower-income than you are. We hosted my MIL a long time ago, and she was lovely and undemanding. It was a pleasure to wait on her. She doesn't visit anymore because of her age and declining health. But my parents, thank goodness, are very private people and decided by themselves to remove themselves to a hotel near our house whenever they visit. It's great - they get quiet time, and come over any time they want and hang out with us. I gladly cook for them while they relax. They pay for their own hotel because money is not a problem.[/quote]
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