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[quote=Anonymous]I’m a creative type with ADHD married to an anxious engineer. When things are going well, it’s a case of yin and yang. We’ve been married over 20 years. Just be aware that engineers can be very rigid, assuming that there is one right way to do everything. (I also attended university with a huge engineering department and roomed with female engineers). I’d say you need to learn to speak up for yourself early and often and not allow yourself to be bulldozed into always doing things the way he prefers. Usually I am happy to have some help with planning and organization, but it can be overwhelming and oppressive if I remain quiet too long. That is easy to happen because we agree on most things - met at church, same socio-economic and educational background. Best wishes![/quote]
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