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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think therapy can work, but you need the right therapist and possibly you need to set boundaries. If your daughter keeps coming up with reasons for treating you poorly, perhaps ask the therapist what this might accomplish in terms of moving forward. I agree with others in that therapists sometimes does not seem to recognize family obligations other than parent to child. [b]Children have obligations to their parents as well, it's a two-way street.[/b][/quote] :roll: :roll: :roll: Sounds exactly like what an abusive parent would say. No, your kids do NOT have any obligations to you. You choose to have them! [/quote] PP you are replying to. Curious about your perspective here. Are you a parent yourself? Was your parent abusive? Nothing in OP's statement makes me think they are abusive, they are in therapy with their adult daughter, it sounds like the daughter keeps coming up with different ways she is dissatisfied with her upbringing. That's a common thing for young adults to do, it doesn't necessarily indicate abuse.[/quote]
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