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[quote=Anonymous]Like everyone else has said, you have to look out for you. I'm many jobs removed from my first job and had those feelings of inertia at my last job. At first I convinced myself that at least it was flexible ...but as more work with the same due dates were being added on I realized it really wasn't that flexible if I felt I couldn't go to the dentist without throwing a deadline off. Then I thought, well at least I have my co workers ...until someone was let go for budget reasons. And I thought well maybe the devil you know ...until I realized I had four people giving me direction ( the joys of the matrix organization) and only one was pleasant almost all the time. I also realized that I was starting to change from the happy, eager to change things for the better, sociable person I was to someone that was scared of saying anything at anytime. That was the kiss of death because at some point I wouldn't have the confidence and drive I needed to get another job if I stayed much longer. The funny thing is once I left, I felt like a burden was lifted. You definitely want to leave on your terms for not just any job but the right job.[/quote]
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