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Reply to "If you held off on divorcing because you didn’t want to lose your home or life as you know it"
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[quote=Anonymous]Every situation is different, but contrary to PPs, divorce vastly reduces the amount of interaction and therefore conflict for most people. After the hard part is over there should not be constant conflict in the coparenting relationship. If too much coordination causes conflict then reduce whatever requires coordination. If you can’t do that switch to methods of communication that are less conducive to conflict. Minimize contact. Talk to a therapist to learn how to avoid taking the bait or entering into conflict. No matter how unreasonable or abusive your partner is, you don’t have to respond. Yes the fights can still hurt but when you are divorced you can walk away and quickly get back to your baseline. [/quote]
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