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[quote=Anonymous]Definitely talk to a lawyer.

I was like you, but plus explosive rage, berating, gaslighting. I stubbornly clung on for the kids. My ex filed.

My life is 3000% better than I possibly could have imagined. I ended up being able to buy him out of the house. I kept the friends, too. Many of ours have seen his true colors separately. Short of physical abuse with clear evidence custody will be 50-50. At first that was a hard adjustment, but I have flexed my work schedule so I think my time with the kids is about the same. He also does not take all his time with the kids because he doesn’t really want it. I am so much happier and thriving in every way. My health was terrible when I was with him, we never had s*x, I was in a huge life rut… turns out all my health issues were stress from the bad marriage, and younger men are incredibly sweet and great in bed. I am truly grateful for this experience. You have to embrace it and psych yourself up to handle it. You probably are a lot stronger and more resourceful than him, which is why you’ve stuck with him so long.[/quote]

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