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[quote=Anonymous]I would suggest she journal it. Like a creative writing exercise in which she envisions cheating with the cousin or breaking up with her boyfriend for him. Write out what would happen next. Hurting someone she presumably cares about. Carrying that guilt. Possible judgment from peers. Creating drama with the bf/cousin’s family (it’s entirely possible their parents would turn them against your DD to mend the boys’ relationship). If for some reason she and the cousin are truly meant to be (which I realize is a long shot, but humor her), wouldn’t it be better to start in a way that isn’t toxic? I think the immediate fall out would take the joy out of this relationship. If she wants to break up with her bf that is a separate decision. When enough time passes she could reevaluate a possible relationship with the cousin. Hopefully the bf’s feelings will have mended enough by then to give the new relationship a chance.[/quote]
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