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[quote=Anonymous]I know I'm not the only one coming off divorce from a man thinking about dating women. But given that dating another woman would involve another person's feelings, consent, lack of interest by many people in newfound gay ladies, etc., yes I've read the threads here - I'm trying to figure out how to ... figure this out.

Is this just a reaction to my divorce? Perimenopausal hormone surge? I've recently met someone (who is not available for an actual dating relationship with me) and I cannot stop thinking about her. I finally feel a bit of empathy for men because I just imagine undressing her and all the things we'd do instead of focusing on work, life, kids, etc. Visually she is just wow and incredibly kind as a person. I feel like a teenager again. I think this is probably just what is called a crush and it will fade but how do I figure out if I should explore this more? Not with her-I'm keeping as a fantasy-but more generally. Do you start with therapy or do you actually start putting yourself out there?[/quote]

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