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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] 1. You can't change who he is. 2. You can control who comes into your house and when. 3. So you tell him: "Going forward, we cannot welcome you like we've done in the past. This year you cannot come at all. Next year, we'll re-evaluate." 4. If he asks why, you say: "You've been treating our home like a free vacation and made lots of demands, which are very burdensome for us. We are very stressed right now with work and health issues and cannot deal with someone who takes all the times and doesn't even try to support us." 5. Point is: this is a person who cannot understand subtlety. Someone needs to be crystal clear with him. [/quote] Holy Cow[/quote] The above may be accurate but is over the top rude. Just say--"Unfortunately we can not accomodate your visit this year--as you know we've had health and employment difficulties. We will reach out to see when we can host you at a better time."[/quote]
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