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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She’s a complainer and an ungrateful guest with poor manners, but her biggest offense is bringing your children into it. That’s the part that really crosses a line for me. How old are your kids? If they aren’t even teenagers yet, she should be kept away from them.[/quote]
OP here. This really bothered us, too. My oldest is almost 11, youngest 8. [/quote]
Oh hell no, she’s not staying with you again until she apologizes to your children and you and promises never to do that again.[/quote]
I don’t even think she realizes it's me who does all the organizing and planning when they visit. I get their room ready, buy the special food and drinks, and take care of the details. I honestly think she believes it’s her brother doing it all, or she’s just in complete denial that I’m the one putting in the effort. That’s why I’m so frustrated; it feels like my efforts aren’t even acknowledged, and yet I’m being made out to be the problem. I don’t think she truly grasps how much I’m doing to make her feel comfortable.[/quote]

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