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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm so sorry that you're going through this at work. She is such a jerk. Please keep in mind that this isn’t about you—it’s about her. People who carry pain often project it onto others. I know it must be exhausting to deal with her every day, but try not to let her negativity take up space inside you. When you allow someone’s words to make you feel small, sad, or angry, you’re giving them power/control over you—and you deserve better than that. That said, if your natural style is more introverted or straightforward, it may help to balance that by being a little more open and engaging in your interactions with your colleagues. Small talk is so draining and seems like a waste of time, but we all need to do some in order to "get along with others" (and not become a target, so to speak).[/quote]
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