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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My daughter is in a sorority in a high Greek life school. She is happy, has plenty of activities at all times, and is focused on her education. This board is strange with its anti-Greek stance. Most sorority members are grounded and love the sisterhood and socializing- they are living a balanced life.

It sounds like you don't trust your daughter which is a completely different issue.[/quote]

Neither dh nor I were in the Greek life, so all I know about it are that you’re more likely to get accepted if you are: good looking, fit, outgoing, have enough money for good clothes, and enjoy the party scene. The fact that these people also have advantages in life later from the “brotherhood” of getting each other jobs is just another way of rich people getting richer. Then you add in the ludicrous hazing that has occasionally resulted in DEATH…and you wonder why some people don’t see the appeal? [/quote]

Again, it sounds like you don't trust your adult child to make a choice. Even at high Greek-life schools, under 25% of students are involved so not sending your child to one of those schools where 75% are not Greek is crazy. Second, "rich" people have always had advantages. Sororities and fraternities do not change that. Country clubs are the adult version. Third, I can't speak for other houses, but I can tell you there was ZERO hazing at my child's school. It is not allowed and did not happen at her sorority. We were actually expecting some minor stuff, but it was all about keeping your grades up, learning the history of the sorority, and making friendships. Ooh, the horror!

That said, I am not trying to convince anyone to join a sorority or fraternity. But barring your child from going to school with a healthy system is taking it too far. [/quote]

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