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[quote=Anonymous]I'd offer her a chance to open up, in a non whiny way. After the wedding and honey moon, I'd say" hey can we talk? I love you and value my relationship with you and want to make sure we are good. If there is anything you need or anything that is on your mind, I am all ears. If she says nothing, you say " okay. I am here if anything comes to mind. I will always love you." You have to know yourself very well to pull this off. If you tend to sound whiny and/ or defeated, don't do it. But if you can say it and it comes out clear that you are looking out for her and your relationship with her, she might open up. A friend of mine had this kind of open ended conversation with her adult step daughter and the conversation that followed was very fruitful. The step daughter had a lot of resentment towards her step mom because of the way her father handled blending the family. [/quote]
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