Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Basketball
Reply to "Experience with Shots Up fall league?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Private training is great but this won't hurt either. It is good to meet people in the basketball world since a lot of the opportunities are word of mouth. [/quote] This is really true and important for parents new to basketball to know. Every tryout DS ever attended was one he was invited to. Early on this wasn’t because he was good, it was just that he and I (dad) met coaches and trainers and other parents, and they’d suggest a team that was a good fit. Same with trainers and training groups. By HS, DS would regularly get texts about runs where good players got gym space and organized to meet, he’d get invites to tryouts and invites to be a guest player for tournaments. I’d go to a tournament and end up talking with tons of parents and kids that DS had been teammates with over the years. It takes time, but building up that network is doable if you show up, are polite and personable, and don’t have a huge ego. In my experience, it’s also a great community to be part of. Basketball kids tend to focus on manners and respect in a way that many teens don’t. My kid learned to greet all the coaches in the gym before practice, and that translated to saying hello and shaking hands with adults when walking into a room. I’ve had lots of kids who I barely recognize (old teammates of DS or even just kids he’s played against a lot) walk up and shake my hand at basketball games and greet me as “Hello [DS’s name]’s dad.” It’s really charming. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics