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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IME many accusations are actually confessions. She's getting a bunch of money from your girlfriend and she's afraid that will stop. Perhaps she's homophobic and she would rather your gf be with a man again?

Whether it's for one of those reasons or she actually is trying to protect her sister from a perceived gold digger I couldn't say but you need to talk to your gf about it. If she doesn't defend you, it might be time to move on. I know that hurts and I'm sorry.[/quote]

The oldest  sister (48) is homophobic and very religious but treats me ok.  She’s not thrilled but she a still kinder than the 30 year old.

I don’t even know how to approach my GF about it.  She loves her siblings.  I’m afraid if I say anything it will be a me vs. them scenario.

The sister in question told the sister I’m closest too that I’m a bad person because I grew up without any family and all my adoptive families left me so something must be “wrong” with me.  So that should tell you a lot about her as a person. [/quote]

What I read is you have found someone you really like but who has MANY messed family members. The 2 feeding you hurtful gossip are no innocents and enjoying building big drama bonfire in hopes they can watch it all burn. If you can’t be open with your GF about what diff sisters saying to you and about you now, future is bad. You also should be able to ask will you live with your sisters in 3 years. If you are not asking or if you are not getting answers, enjoy the fling but then cut bait and move to someone else.[/quote]

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