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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How did you set your filters

What do your photos look like

What does your profile say [/quote]

My filters are:

Must have undergrad and/or graduate degree
Height: 5’9 - 6’4
Open to children 
Distance: 30 miles

I have recent photos from my trip in Europe; full body shots of me sight seeing; a picture of me with my niece; picture of me in a dress on the beach [/quote]

I’m sorry, but you need to be less picky. Most women would date a guy 5’9”+ with a grad degree who’s open to kids.  You are competing with *everyone*. That includes all the gorgeous women in their twenties who haven’t been married yet. Many of those guys you are targeting set their limits to 28-30. I know this because I did OLD from 25-32. I saw a slight drop-off at 29, and a big drop-off at 30. I assume there’s another drop-off at 35. Honestly, if you’re 5’0”, I’d be MUCH more flexible on height. [/quote]

Op here. I’m a catch and I’m not fat and I have a lot to offer. The worst thing you can say about me is that I selected poorly for my first husband and he serially cheated on me. So now I’m back on the apps. 😭

I am not competing with 25 year olds. They can date from 23-32 year old men.

I’m looking at men that are 37-50 years old. The men in my age group who would rather select a 32 year old well…I don’t want them anyway. [/quote]

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